A couple weeks ago, another writer on Face book asked if going to a theme park could be considered a “romantic” date. I was in the minority when I responded that any adult dating can be romantic, because I believe romance is about chemistry, not environment.
I never really dated much in high school, and none of the dates I went on back then were terribly romantic. It’s not that the guys didn’t try, the chemistry just wasn’t there. Even the traditional “candlelight dinner” is just boring and awkward if you’re not “feeling” the online personals you’re with. On the other hand, that same dinner can turn romantic if the waiter or the guy two tables over is cute.
With my husband though, it never mattered what we did. Whether the environment was skewed towards romance or not, a look, a touch, or a simple exchange could turn the evening romantic in a second. Being with him is still like that for me – we can be in a crowd of matchdoctor people, irritated at noise or children, or monster strollers – and it still doesn’t take much to get those stomach flutters going and make everything around us fade to a dull roar.
I think if the chemistry isn’t there, romance isn’t happening no matter where you go. You can find men for romantic date. I had a date with one guy in college that was like that he was a great guy, we had a lot in common, and for our first date, we went out for dinner and dancing. It was just sort of a pleasant evening out, even though it certainly had the potential for romance.
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This entry was posted on Wednesday, June 30th, 2010 at 4:49 am and is filed under adult dating, matchmaking, online daitng, online personals.
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